Tobey

Alexander

Neurodivergent Author, Filmmaker, Advocate & Mentor

You're not broken. You're just not the shape they expected.

I am chaos personified. Writer. Speaker. Ex-cop. The UK's first openly AuDHD Chief Firearms Instructor. Author. Screenwriter. Mentor. Father.

I got promoted. I just never got invited into the club. Too different for the dizzying heights. When I stopped hiding who I was, they called me the problem child.

They weren't wrong. I am the problem. The problem with pretending difference should be hidden. The problem with systems that crush the people they need most.

I exist to wrap all of that chaos into something you can relate to, confide in and grow from.

Because if I can stand here after everything - so can you.

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Stories built from a brain that never switched off. Dark worlds, real emotions, unforgettable characters.

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Nobody mentored me. So now I do it for the people who need it most. Talks, mentoring and more.

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Visual stories that don't apologise for being different. Because neither do I.

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Neurodiversity Event Organiser, Metropolitan Police

"We billed him as a writer and he revealed he was a police officer at the end. The feedback for his talk was amazing! Plenty of people spoke to him afterwards."

What people say

Lecturer, Derby University

"Great presentation at Scotland Yard yesterday. Brilliant way to influence the crowd and build rapport with your audience, loved it."

Host, ADHD Biography Podcast

"His openness, authenticity, and ability to articulate complex neurocognitive concepts in a relatable way made for a powerful episode."