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The Space Between Who I Was And Who I Am Becoming
For twenty years, my identity was neat and externally legible. Name. Rank. Role. Then, almost without ceremony, that structure ended. I am in the space between who I was and who I am becoming. It is quieter than I expected. Stranger too. Change is not a switch you flip. It is a nervous system recalibrating, a grip loosening, a life slowly rearranging itself around truth.
Tobey Alexander
Dec 18, 20253 min read


Creativity as a Neurodivergent Coping Strategy
For as long as I can remember, words have been my safest place. Before I had the language for “autistic” or “ADHD,” before I knew what masking was, I knew how to disappear into a page. As an author and screenwriter, I’ve always gravitated to writing as my main form of creativity. But the more I’ve learned about my own neurodivergence, the clearer it’s become that creativity isn’t just a hobby or a career path. For many of us, it’s a coping strategy. A survival tool. A way to
Tobey Alexander
Nov 24, 20255 min read


Empowering Neurodivergent Individuals with Tools
Let’s be honest. Navigating the world when your brain dances to a different beat can feel like trying to tune a radio to a station that’s just out of reach. I’ve been there, fumbling with tools and strategies that promised the moon but barely got me off the ground. But here’s the thing - empowerment isn’t about fitting in; it’s about finding the right tools to amplify your unique voice. So, buckle up. I’m going to share some real talk about how tools can genuinely empower neu
Tobey Alexander
Nov 6, 20254 min read


Fostering Inclusivity Through Authentic Leadership
Let’s be honest. Creating truly inclusive spaces isn’t just about ticking boxes or slapping on a diversity statement. It’s messy, it’s personal, and it demands a kind of leadership that’s raw, real, and downright brave. I’ve stumbled through this myself, learning that the best way to foster inclusivity is by embracing what I call authentic leadership . If you’re wondering how to make your leadership style more inclusive, especially for neurodivergent individuals, you’re in th
Tobey Alexander
Oct 27, 20255 min read


Understanding Neurodivergent Lived Experiences
Let me be honest right from the start - understanding neurodivergent experiences isn’t as straightforward as it sounds. It’s messy, complex, and often wrapped in layers of misunderstanding and some antiquated ideas that seem rooted in the dark ages. I’ve stumbled through my own journey, tripping over assumptions and stereotypes, trying to make sense of what it means to live with a brain that doesn’t quite tick the usual boxes. If you’re here, you might be on a similar path, o
Tobey Alexander
Oct 20, 20254 min read


Practical Tools for Neurodivergent Empowerment
Let’s be honest. Navigating the world when your brain dances to a different beat can feel like trying to solve a Rubik’s cube blindfolded (please be aware unlike my oldest son and daughter who can complete them...I cannot, and I find them really bloody irritating). I’ve been there, tangled in the chaos of sensory overload, executive dysfunction, and the endless quest for understanding. But here’s the thing - there are tools out there that don’t just help you cope but empower
Tobey Alexander
Oct 14, 20254 min read


Authentic Leadership Through Inclusive Practices
Let’s be honest. Leadership isn’t some polished, perfect art form reserved for a select few. It’s messy, human, and often downright...
Tobey Alexander
Oct 6, 20254 min read


Embracing Neurodiversity for Personal Growth
I’ll be honest with you - embracing the value of neurodiversity wasn’t something I woke up excited about. It felt like a foreign...
Tobey Alexander
Sep 29, 20254 min read


Understanding Neurodivergent Traits and Their Impact
I’ve always found the world a bit of a puzzle. Bits don’t quite fit the way others expect, and sometimes, I’m left wondering if I’m the...
Tobey Alexander
Sep 22, 20255 min read
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